“Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess. And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner. I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.” Luke 18:10-14
My Summary & Reflection
In this parable, Jesus tells us of the prayers of two men, one a Pharisee and the other a publican. A Pharisee was a strict adherent of Jewish law and a respected member of society. A publican was a tax collector, which was an occupation looked upon with scorn as the taxes were collected for the Romans under whose empire the Jewish people lived. First, the Pharisee stood and offered up his prayer to God. He thanked God that he was better than the sinners of the world, including the publican. He also noted to God, how faithful in his observance of law that he had been. Next, the publican, with lowered eyes, offered up his prayer. In it he prayed for mercy for himself and called himself a sinner. Jesus then tells us that the publican who humbled himself will be looked upon more favorably than the Pharisee who exalted himself.
I think that this parable is about the dangers of being self-satisfied. As a religious adherent in a world filled with sin, it’s easy to look around at those who we feel are under performing and say to ourselves, “Well, at least I’m not a thief or at least I’m not an adulterer,” as the Pharisee did. Or to pat ourselves on the back for our tithe, or our fast, or our attendance at church services. But what Jesus is saying is that our prayers to God are not about comparing ourselves to one another as each of us has our own flaws, but in comparing ourselves with that which is not flawed, which is God. As Jesus says in Luke 18:19, “...none is good, save one, that is God.” Because as faithful as each of us is, we are all flawed and all are in need of God’s mercy.
This parable is also about the dangers of looking down on someone else’s spirituality. In his prayer, the Pharisee thanked God that he wasn’t like the publican. Meanwhile, the publican was praying for forgiveness and for mercy from God. As the scripture notes, those who humble themselves will be exalted. The publican saw his own flaws and, prayed with the humility of a sinner seeking mercy. The publican was self-aware in a way that the Pharisee wasn’t. The publican was able to view himself critically, while the Pharisee was not. And for that, Jesus says, the Pharisee in his boastfulness will be made low.
Your Reflection
- Are you tempted to compare yourself favorably to those around you? If so, why?
- How can you look at yourself more critically, and pray for mercy for your own flaws?
- How can you start to look at others with compassion instead of competition?